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April 26, 2010

My Mothers Best Advice – A Tribute to Mother’s Day

This year for Mother’s Day, SkinAgain is going to give away 12 jars of Pigment Correct to the first twelve people who respond to this blog with their mom’s best advice.

We’ve asked around and here a few wise words of wisdom from the moms of some of our colleagues and friends:

·         “Before you do anything life changing, call me!”

·         “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”

·         “Strivers achieve what dreamers believe.”

·         “If you put your mind to it, you can do it.”

·         “Be careful what you wish for because you might get it.”

·         “And, listen to me, I’ve been through it already.’”

Respond with your mom’s best advice and get your FREE PIGMENT CORRECT in time to give to your mom for Mother’s Day!

**Thank you everyone for your comments, the last day of eligibility is 5/1/10!

April 19, 2010

Mirror, mirror, on the wall…

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I’ve undertaken a daily practice that I want to share with you.

Every day, we look in the mirror, put on makeup, brush our teeth and do our hair, right?  But, how many times have you ever looked in the mirror at yourself?  I’m talking, looking straight into your own eyes (the window to your soul) in the mirror.  If you’re like me, in a hurry to ‘get things done’, you probably have never done it!  Next question:  Have you ever looked into your own eyes in the mirror and then said: “I love you” to yourself?

I’ve been told that doing this for 30 days in a row can create enormous changes – positive changes in ourselves.  So, I decided to try it.  I’m five days in the running now, and here’s what I’ve discovered:

I lost some of my femininity and I need to get it back!

I’ve been functioning in my masculine side for too long – you know – the part of us that gets the corner office, the title; even at home, functioning as the CEO by meeting deadlines, organizing schedules, managing, managing, managing.  As I look into the window of my soul in the mirror and say: “I love you”, I feel compelled to also say: “I’m sorry”.

“I’m sorry for neglecting your femininity, your light-hearted, joyful spontaneity – laughing in the kitchen and clipping flowers out of the garden.”

Some of us are so dedicated to pulling the sledge up the long steep hill of life that we never look eye-to-eye at our feminine selves.  We focus on a linear (masculine in nature) goal and unintentionally forget the feminine.

Just thought I’d share this simple little practice with you.  If you feel like trying it and have an epiphany, we’d love to hear from you!

March 8, 2010

Women’s Love/Hate Relationship with the Media – Part 4, The Mirror

It’s definitely good to maintain high standards. After all, especially when it comes to your body, health & skin, you want to be the best you can be.

The problem: The best YOU can be is not the same as the best I can be.  We’re all different, but like in the many episodes of “Seinfeld,” both George and Jerry are seen breaking up with women because they are a “low-talker,” another had “man-hands,” one used Jerry’s toothbrush, another had a weird toe. These women got the axe because they didn’t meet the impossible standards of these comical and neurotic characters.

As we women (who have a love/hate relationship with the media) know, these sitcoms, movies and advertisements really do set standards high.

Did you watch the Academy Awards? At 46-years-old Demi Moore is the very image of age-defying beauty – (but it’s no secret that Mrs. Kutcher has indulged in the odd nip tuck over the years).   In a bizarre real-life case of the Benjamin Button effect, Demi seems to have aged backwards.  Stepping out on stage Demi’s face, body and skin appeared plumper, tighter and smoother than it has in years.

Would you say she is the best SHE can be?   I would say ‘yes’.  She can afford it.  But all of us fellow 47 year olds now have to work really hard on feeling good about the best ‘WE’ can be (knowing that if we stood next to Demi we’d look like her mother!).

The media . . . love/hate. . . do I have to say more?

March 4, 2010

Women’s Love/Hate Relationship with the Media – Part 3, Women in the Bedroom

Have you experienced this scenario?:

You and your partner are walking, hand in hand, down the street or in a mall.  The chit-chat is casual.  All of sudden, your partner’s gaze looks up and turns sideways as he views the manikins in the window of a lingerie store.  In fact, yours does too!

Has the media made the sexy female body too hard to measure up to? Or, do we like it this way because it serves as a motivation for us women to stay in the best shape we can?

The following question was asked to Drew Pinsky, MD, the straight-shooting co-host of Loveline, a two-hour radio show on sex and relationships:

For men, what’s the difference between okay sex and great sex?

Dr. Drew:   Well, it is about how the woman looks to the man. It’s who he’s with that makes the difference…Men do a very, very careful evaluation of physicality…Men look at beauty in terms of genetic loading for fertility and health, although we’re not doing it consciously—because men almost never consciously want to have children.  So it’s things like facial symmetry and glowing skin, signs of good health and the ability to carry a child, that translate to attractiveness for a male. Very primitive stuff.

Then he rates, on a scale from 1 – 10, how important the following things are to a man:

A fit body? A woman who works out?

Dr. DrewThat’s an 8.

A woman who doesn’t feel good about her body?

Dr. DrewThat’s up there in the turnoff category:  7 or 8.

Read the full article here.

Now, I ask you. . . Is there an oxy-moron here?  We must have a fit body, facial symmetry, glowing skin, signs of good health and the ability to carry a child.  And, if we don’t measure up, God help us if we show any signs of not feeling good about that!

How do you feel the media has influenced the bedroom?  We’d love to know, so please comment!

And please check back next Monday for:  
Women’s Love/Hate Relationship with the Media 
Part 4 – The Mirror.

March 1, 2010

Women’s Love/Hate Relationship with the Media – Part 2, Women in the Boardroom

Do women in the boardroom face a double standard?  Do we have to be extra attentive to self-improvement to appear to be competent and recognized as effective?

Here are some comments that we’ve heard over the years regarding ‘self-improvement’ that are necessary for women to stay in the boardroom:

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  • Women need to learn a more positive approach to leading, encouraging others, thus being less bossy than men.
  • When it comes to women in the boardroom, clothes speak volumes. It takes only a few seconds for people you’ve never met to form perceptions about your female authority and  abilities by judging your attire.
  • Women need to learn skills that will bring positive and powerful emotion to the workplace, and be better relationship-builders and better communicators than men (and apparently we can do this because our brains are more networked for language).
  • Women need to learn alternative approaches to leading teams — encouraging more open discussion, cultivating talent and sharing credit.  In fact, it would behoove women to read books on inspirational motivation, intellectual stimulation and individualized consideration. Perhaps sitting at the middle of the conference table rather than at its head and saying, “We are all in this together and I am part of it”.

With all of this emphasis on self-improvement to become successful in the boardroom (and all of it is good, no doubt), are we spending so much time trying to ‘measure up’, that we actually never make it there in time to make a real change?

Wow! Learning how to have authority in a mostly male dominated position, is a subtle and far reaching issue, indeed.

And, we haven’t even touched on how a woman’s skin and hair is supposed to look in the boardroom (trust me, being in the skin care industry, we’ve seen and heard an earful)!

Are you in the boardroom?  Would you like to be?  Please share us your thoughts on what you think is necessary for a woman to stay there!

February 26, 2010

Women’s Love-Hate Relationship with the Media – Part One of Three


Does the media’s glam representation of how women should be in the:

  • Boardroom
  • Bedroom, and
  • The Mirror . . .

. . . lull us into thinking we’re much more powerful than we really are, or stir our anxiety into believing we cannot age gracefully, by peddling false fantasies?

Do the leading female gurus of our country distract women from advocating real change by over-focusing on self-improvement?

Does the image of the youthful, fierce and sexy Superwoman actually thwart womens’ forward momentum?

Good questions, huh?

In this 3-part blog, we will share with you a few awarenesses that we have come to – candidly and honestly.  We hope that you feel free to leave a comment or two on how you feel about it too.  In fact, start now!

Next Tuesday, look for SkinAgain’s Part One candid take on: Women in the Boardroom.

February 1, 2010

Accepting Our Imperfections – FINAL Part 5

Filed under: Self-Image, Tips and Ideas, Uncategorized — Tags: , , , , , , , — admin @ 5:07 pm

At least once a week, I don’t straighten my hair.  I have a heard of, what I like to call, a ‘multicontinent mane’.  It’s a plethora of Afro-Euro-Alien hairs that all have a mind of their own.  When someone sees me on my ‘natural hair day’ (I used to call it a ‘bad hair day’) it’s usually accompanied by a “Whoa – I didn’t know you had…. (pause to find a descriptive)….curly hair!”   Growing up, I hated the attention my full, crazy hair attracted. Throughout early church school years, when I was supposed to be praying for world peace (which I regularly do now), I would instead supplicate for either “black girl” or “white girl” hair. “Your choice, God!  Just get rid of this poodle perm my Afro- Euro-Alien blood has cursed me with. Amen.”

God had a much larger agenda, so hair drama followed me into high school.  Straight, parted-in-the-middle-with-a-hippie-headband was the trend, and to get the ‘look’, I’d spend hours literally ironing my hair on the iron board and that was after I had already rolled my hair on frozen orange juice cans and slept in them all night.  Of course, I’d seal the deal with Dippity Doo and Aqua Net.

Then the world turned on its axis . . .

The blow dryer was invented!

I do think its funny – the expressions I get on my natural hair days.  I appreciate how many crazy textures exist on my scalp – at least once a week I do.  I don’t call it a “bad hair day” anymore.  My granddaughter loves playing ‘in’ it.

Please tell us about your unique hair and how you have found fun ways to enhance its natural ‘mind of its own’.

January 25, 2010

Accepting Our Imperfections – Part 4

As a woman who has been blessed with ample curves from a very young age, I have watched my mother spend countless, frustrating hours trying to find flattering outfits. It is as if fashion designers are completely clueless as to what the plus sized woman is looking for. (After all, she couldn’t possibly be looking for the same thing that skinny women look for – right?) There were only two choices. If she wanted something colorful and fun, her choice was the largest and gaudiest of floral muumuus. If she needed something subtle and dressy – well – black was the only choice.

(And the fact that these same decision makers think it’s acceptable to label this clothing, “2X” or even the words “plus size” is an issue that really needs some discussion. . . )

But, my mother had class and she knew how to find classy clothes for her voluptuous body. She always envisioned herself at her best and found sexy ways to dress herself.

My mom is 84 years old now, barely walking with a walker and has breast cancer. She’s still a “plus size” (I really hate that term!). I guess you could say she has every reason to be depressed, but instead, every morning she looks into the mirror and says to herself: “I’m still alive and I’m still a woman!” Then, she proceeds to apply her lip gloss and tie her little scarf around her neck and pin her broche on her sweater. And, my 85 year old dad still swats her in her back-side when she passes by him.

I think Maya Angelou must have been referring to my mom when she said: “It’s the fire in my eyes, and the flash of my teeth, the swing in my waist, and the joy in my feet.” Or Mae West when she defined the word ‘curve’ as: “The loveliest distance between two points”.

To all of you beautiful big girls out there, we would love to hear where you like to shop, what your favorite article of clothing is and perhaps a few words about being sexy and voluptuous.

January 14, 2010

Learn to Love Your Imperfections – A 5-Part Blog Series Part One

There’s nothing cute about my legs.  No matter how thin they are, no matter how much I work out, they seem ‘spongy’.  They’ve been like that my whole life.  I’m the guru of skin care, so I’ve tried everything topical, but it’s just an inherited trait.  The hemline has to be just right, and you’ll never see me in a miniskirt without some kind of hosiery!


I’ve told myself, “Sherrie, you should be happy you’ve got two legs to walk on.” I know that’s true, but it’s not so easy to digest. We’ve all been fed the same ideals. I’ve had a male companion tell me to my face, “You should do something about those thighs.”  I was devastated!

Over time some women learn to love their flaws.  Not me. I still look at my thighs in the mirror and shake my head. But I’ve learned something just as valuable: I have enough gorgeous friends to know that being pretty guarantees nothing—not confidence, not happiness, not love. I also know that a good man isn’t necessarily good-looking.

So these days, I concentrate on developing my best asset: my personality (my uneven breasts are a close second). Men may woo-woo my curvaceous colleague on the street, but when we get to the restaurant, the energy gravitates to me. I can feel it.  In the end, I may wish I had different thighs, but I like who I am as a person. And because I believe that there’s much more to me than my looks, other people believe it, too.

If this struck a cord with you, please comment and share with us how you’ve embraced what society terms an ‘imperfection’.


December 31, 2009

Skin Care Resolutions 2010

Simple changes to your skin care routine can make all the difference to your skin. These 10 easy resolutions will have you well on your way to clearer, healthier glowing skin.

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1. I will cleanse my face every night before going to sleep.

Take time every night to thoroughly cleanse your face, even if you don’t wear makeup. Doing so will help remove excess oil that may contribute to the development of blackheads, or clogged pores. And don’t forget about your neck, jaw line, and in front of and behind the ears. These are places commonly overlooked during cleansing.

2. I will stop exfoliating my skin with abrasive scrubs.

Thorough cleansing is good; vigorous scrubbing of the skin is not. Avoid abrasive scrubs, scrubbing pads, and rough washcloths if you have acne. Instead, use a soft cloth or your bare hands. If you feel you need more exfoliation, try an alpha hydroxy, salicylic, or glycolic acid product, which removes dead skin cells without abrasive ingredients. However, if you are using any prescription acne medications, such as Retin A, Azelaic acid, or Accutane, do not use any additional exfoliating products.

3. I will remember to do my skincare regimen every day.

Consistency is key in skincare. To get the results you’re looking for, you should do your skincare regimen everyday, or as directed. It’s easy to forget, especially when life gets busy. To help you remember, try using your products at the same time every day. Or get into the habit of applying your topical treatments at the same time that you do something else like just after brushing your teeth or as soon as you get home from work.

4. I will stop popping my pimples, or otherwise picking at my skin.

Popping pimples is bad for the skin. Every time you pop, squeeze, or pick at a blemish you run the risk of damaging the follicle wall and increase the chance of scarring. Picking at your skin will lengthen healing time and can push infected material deeper into the dermis. Remind yourself of that when you feel the need to squeeze a breakout.

5. I will get a facial at least four times a year.

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Prebook a seasonal facial today with your skin specialist. Ideally you should get a facial every month, but if you can’t, at least get one every three months. If it’s in your schedule, you’ll make time for it. Whether you need deep cleansing or deep moisturizing an esthetician can get better results than you can get at home. In addition, most day spas offer a number of peels and other procedures, such as microdermabrasion, that can deal with specific problems, like discolorations and sagging skin.

6. I will wear sunscreen every day

Sun exposure, even 15 minutes of it midday, can damage skin and lead to fine lines, discoloration and loss of elasticity down the road. These conditions age you before your time. Sun exposure is cumulative. That means you will not see today’s sun damage today. When you do see it, it will be too late. Experts suggest you wear a daily SPF of 15 and use SPF 30 if you’re skiing or at the beach.

7. I will throw away old makeup and skincare products.

Take some time to go through all cosmetics and skin care products. Recall when the item was purchased, or look for an expiration date. If there is no date, there are other signs it needs to be tossed out, like eye shadow that has oil build-up or is dusty. Pressed powders and bronzers are sanctuaries for oil, bacteria and dirt. If mascara feels clumpy and dry, throw it out. Mascara is best when used in three months. A quick smell test does the trick for lipstick: If it smells funny, toss it.

8. I will give my skin a boost with new products.Serums Gift Set Image

Try a new brand of cleanser, toner or moisturizer. If skin your skin looks dull, its time for a boost. Add a facial “serum” like SkinAgain oZ-tone to the routine, a product that’s more concentrated and not as heavy as lotions and moisturizers. It’s never too early to start using eye creams and gels.

9. I will put down the martini and the cigarettes!

This is probably the most important resolution to make. Excessive drinking and smoking leads to pre-mature aging. Free radicals and toxins released into the body break down essential vitamins and collagen that is produced naturally, thus leading to wrinkling of the skin.

10. I will exercise regularly.female_workout

Regular exercise can contribute to a radiant complexion. Working out can have dramatic results on your skin by reducing acne breakouts, getting rid of toxins, facilitating collagen production and nutrient delivery and increasing circulation.


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